How to give a guy oral sex properly

In the immortal words of Samantha from Sex and the City , there's 'teeth placement, jaw stress, suction, and gag reflex, all the while bobbing up and down, moaning and trying to breathe'. You can be guaranteed that your man is fantasizing away, so you may as well join in the fantasy. Have a warm towel ready and then place his feet on a pillow on your lap. Now that you have him in your mouth, you can start to suck. Get our newsletter every Friday! An unofficial straw poll of 10 female friends, all British, revealed a fairly similar attitude. Let me begin by saying I am no sex expert or professional.

Human behaviour and emotions are wonderfully complex, and I want to dig deeper and understand more. Make a swirling motion while doing so. I also have an exceptionally small mouth according to my dentist, which isn't particularly reassuring. Do it for maybe ten or fifteen minutes. Those two together are the beginnings of a great bj.

Honey, do not over analyze this. Some men really do not care if you swallow or spit, others see swallowing as a huge turn-on. Those who are sensitive to frank discussions about sex are invited to click elsewhere, but consider this: While I masturbated one, I would fellate the other and then switch. I love the fact that I can make a guy squirm by using my mouth to caress his penis and testicles.

You will also probably get a lot of positive feedback in the form of moans and sighs. I don't know how or why this works, but it does. She was raised a Mormon in Wyoming, and was part of the abstinence-only movement as a teenager. Hopefully your partner will be honest with you about what feels good, but what you think you're supposed to do? I have trouble controlling my gag reflex though. Make it really wet with your mouth.